(Closed) How to get out of this negative mindset?

posted 8 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
3910 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I know how you feel.  I think after trying and trying one just gets so use to the failure.  Instead of saying if, say WHEN this cycle works, WHEN we are pregnant we are going to this…chin up lady! Gl! 

Post # 4
2961 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ugh, right there with you. I wish I had advice but I can at least tell you that you’re not alone!

Post # 6
12294 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I wish I knew too.  It’s getting harder and harder to try to stay positive cause everytime I’m positive, it’s just more crushing when its a BFN and AF shows up.  🙁

Post # 7
515 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

@rosworms:  Like so many others, I really don’t have any advice for you but can definitely tell you you are not alone.  Its’ a really tricky thing because I want to think positively but at the same time I want to guard my heart and not get my hopes up.  Hang in there, girl!

Post # 8
61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@rosworms:  I wish I had some advice. I only know how you feel! I am 10dpo … BFN… and even though I know its still early to give up hope, I am already planning our next attack (lol yes, I feel like its an attack). I even called and scheduled a fertility appointment… 

Post # 9
6580 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m sorry you ladies are feeling that way. I used to feel exactly the same way and then one day BAM… pregnant.  FX that you ladies don’t have to feel this way much longer.

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