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posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Just remember that there will be a million things that you each do differently, and that neither of you is WRONG for your habits.  If you are accustomed to x, he may be accustomed to y, and you both might think the other is an idiot for that.  Get over feeling that your ways of doing things are better than his (and help him get over his feeling that his are superior as well) and things will work out smoothly.

I think that was the biggest thing I learned when I moved in with my fiance — that you cannot predict what will bug you about living together, but that you both have to learn to adapt and ignore things. 

Post # 5
1425 posts
Bumble bee

In all plain honesty, it’ll probably be pretty hard.  You’ll each have your own routines and the way you go about things in the home, and they will most likely clash.  One word: COMPROMISE!  Pick your battles.  Sit down and figure out new routines for the two of you TOGETHER.  It’ll take time, but you guys will figure it out.

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