(Closed) How to get over sexual inhibitions?!?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
2959 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Maybe stop focusing on the intended goal and focus on being in the moment might help? Why not learn some nice massage technique? EVERYBODY loves a good massage, It is relaxing and maybe those inhibitions will slowly fall away.

Post # 4
613 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - Historic cinema

I teach burlesque and have had so many women with various insecurities just blossom in my classes.

It’s such a fun, supportive, inspiring community and I think all women could benefit or a little burley que in their lives 🙂

Post # 5
633 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Maybe this will get me some flack, but if I get a little tipsy (2 glasses of wine or so), I find that I’m a lot more adventurous and and more likely to initiate. And once I’ve done a position or something once, I find the sober confidence to do it again

Post # 6
2874 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

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@IowaDDS13:  oh phew, i was going to suggest a glass of wine but i thought id get flamed by people saying “if you think alcohol is necessary for sex you have a problem” hahaha.glad you said it too!

i think its all stages of comfort. are you comfortable being naked in front of him (outside of sexy time). some bees consider a bit of mystery helps with passion, but for me if im open enough to walk around the room naked it lets me feel less inhibited when we get down to it (which i was at the beginning

the massage idea and burlesque sounds pretty good in my opinion

Post # 8
1877 posts
Buzzing bee

@cdncinnamongirl:  I agree with a lot of the aforementioned advice: a nice massage and a little wine or bubbly can go a long way.  Also, maybe trying dolling yourself up so you FEEL ultra sexy and confident.  Some beautiful lingerie, gorgeous hair and makeup, and the right heels always make me feel very sexy, beautiful, and confident.  


Post # 10
7199 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

Get drunk & sext him! 🙂 Seriously… you can take all the time you need to craft a sexy suggestive text, you don’t have to say it out loud & if you do it when he’s on his way home (or even in the next room!) that totally counts as initiating! You can work up to actually saying/doing sexy things but this is a good first step!

Post # 11
2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

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@IowaDDS13:  +1 Same for me! Alcohol really helps if I want to be adventurous but feel too shy

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