How to get over Waiting blues??

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 16
9897 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

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alletheottb :  

Oh my goodness are you serious  ?  There can  be no possible acceptable reason for having a ring for two and half years and not proposing with it………..

Frankly I’d ask him  which of the following is  true 

1. have you changed  your mind about marriage ? 

2. are you waiting for someone better to come  along ? 

3. Does it amuse  you to keep me wondering about it and my worth ?

4 Do you like the feeling of control it gives you? 

5 Are you hoping I’ve forgotten about it ? 

I am so cross on your   behalf !!!!



Post # 17
296 posts
Helper bee

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elderbee :  Those questions have ALL gone through my mind. I haven’t told people before probably because, in the back of my mind, I know it’s not right. But I think I keep trying to justify that it is okay. 

He is visiting the 13th- 21st. And I will let you all know what happens after we’ve discussed everything.

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