(Closed) How to handle personal questions/comments

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 18
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550 posts
Busy bee

I”m a big fan of “About a year after people stop asking me when *insert whatever rude thing they’ve asked you about*”

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@Hyperventilate I love that sucker punch line.

Post # 19
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52 posts
Worker bee

I’m usually polite and say: “That’s a personal decision, and as soon as we’re successful, we will indeed let everyone know. Until that time, don’t worry about it.”

One person in particular really kept pressing the issue. I was with my SO 4 years before we got married. (We were married 2 weeks ago on our 5th anniversary.) I replied with: “Contrary to popular belief, my sole purpose on this Earth is not to breed. If or when I choose to do so, I will alert the social media as necessary.” Mean, but I couldn’t help it. It was an old crotchety aunt that kept nagging me about marriage and babies….

Post # 20
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363 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Those kinds of questions do get annoying. I’m getting married next year and people are already asking me when I’m going to have a baby. I just reply with “Not right now” and leave it at that. And then there are some people who tell me when I SHOULD have a baby. Ugh, do people not have manners or sense or privacy nowadays?

Post # 22
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1349 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

People ask me all the time when I am going to get engaged/married to my SO.  Especially my mom.  I never know what to say because it is waiting on my SO to be ready.  So I usually just say, “SO hasn’t asked me yet” or “ask SO that question.”

Post # 24
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1074 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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@MissCountryGirl727:  “As if we can just go to the house store and pick out the perfect house in a weekend.” You made me lol 😀 But seriously, how awesome would that be?


When I’m asked a personal question, I make sure there’s an awkward silence before I say, “Uhhhh, well we haven’t done it yet, so….I dunno, whenever feel like it.”

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