How to help

posted 2 months ago in Emotional
Post # 2
60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2019

Can you invite her to a dress fitting maybe? Or ask her opinion on the signs? Maybe something important day-of? 

Post # 4
3955 posts
Honey bee

Don’t invent problems. There’s better stuff to worry about in the world.

“Thank you so much for the offer.  That is really nice of you.  I managed to get everything done already, so I cant think of anything off the top of my head but I’ll let you know if I think of something.”

Done.  No need to make up stuff for her to do.  Being “included” doesn’t necessarily mean doing tasks for you…Just be friendly and engaging and interact with her.

Post # 5
204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2020 - City, State

I think it’s very cool that you are wanting to make her part of everything! I think if I was the mother of the groom, I’d sure want to feel like I’m doing something for the big day. Is there something she could shop for? Like the guest book or the knife for cake-cutting? Or if you don’t want it to be a situation where she is spending, maybe you could ask her advice on some things, even if you don’t need it…like what to gift your husband on the wedding day or what song she’d like for her dance with her son?

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