- 7 years ago
My mother and I have a good relationship. She drives me insane sometimes but whose mother doesn’t? Anyway, I eluded to the fact that I didn’t want her with me the night before the wedding in the hotel. She seemed fine with that. She is now trying to change things and says “so we’re staying at the hotel (meaning her & I & my bridesmaid & flower girl) Friday before & we’ll bring…” just trying to say it all casually. I tried to backpedal as much as i could without hurting her feelings and she got all offended anyway. On top of that, these words LITERALLY came out of her mouth “I’m the most important person (VERY uncomfortable pause)…next to you & Tom (FI) of course”.
How do I take that ? Do I put my foot down and tell her she is absolutely NOT staying with us? She lives over an hour away so having her drive back & forth is an issue also. HELP!