(Closed) How to let go of someone

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@SweetRose2011: Are you in contact with her parents?  Could you maybe ask them to coordinate a dinner?

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Aww. I am sorry dear… I have no clue what to do though, there is only so much a person can do to try to get another person to respond 🙁

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

It really depends on how long you’ve tried to contact her. If it’s been a while, I’d let her go. I’ve had to do that with my best friend because he just started to become more bad than good. I mean, he was causing me more grief than he was making me happy. It wasn’t worth it anymore. The people you love are supposed to bring joy into your life….I guess that’s how I feel about it. 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@SweetRose2011: Okay, this might sound drastic, but what about texting her that you need her to come pick you up at a police station.  No other details, just that.  If she doesn’t call or text back, then you know.  If she comes, be waiting outside with some coffee and pastries, and talk to her.  If she doesn’t call back, then maybe she’s got more going on than you know.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

You don’t give her any details though… just “need you to come get me @ police station, 123 main st. ASAP.”  Try to pick somewhere relatively convenient for her.

Sounds silly, but it might just work.  I know if I texted one of my close cousins that, they’d be there in a heartbeat.  I hope she shows.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@SweetRose2011: I wouldn’t say hospital… that might worry her too much.  Police station is more like, I’m in trouble, can’t call anyone else, thought of you because I know you’ll come get me.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@SweetRose2011: No no, not at all!  It’s just an idea… I had to really think what I would do if someone I was close to was being completely unresponsive.  You should ABSOLUTELY get lots of opinions!  I know this idea was kooky!  🙂

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