(Closed) How to let his ex-girlfriend know we're engaged

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
Member
943 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

It’ll just continue her being miserable towards you, so if that’s what you’d like, then go for it. She will see it on your social media accounts anyways, so I don’t think you need to go the extra step to “rub it in.”

Post # 3
Member
268 posts
Helper bee

View original reply
jassy.uhlin:  Why is she even in your lives to begin with? 

Post # 4
Member
3529 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

View original reply
jassy.uhlin:  just do what u would normally do in regards to ur engagement and forget about her. She will find out on her own. 

and stop letting her take up space in ur head rent free!  Enjoy ur engagement! 

Post # 5
Member
200 posts
Helper bee

Lol, I hear you on this. My SO has an ex that really kind of ruined my life for a while so I get it and I’d TOTALLY feel the same way. 

Unfortunately, the only way to really “win” is to just ignore her and be happy on your own. Don’t do anything to rub it in, just be happy! That’s the best thing you can do, and if she happens to notice how happy you’re being, she’ll probably hate that anyway 🙂

Post # 6
Member
47407 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

View original reply
jassy.uhlin:  Put an announcement in your local newspaper.

  • This reply was modified 6 years, 1 month ago by  julies1949.
Post # 7
Member
2254 posts
Buzzing bee

View original reply
jassy.uhlin:  I say use something as classy as your motive for doing this, so….strippergram?

  • This reply was modified 6 years, 1 month ago by  MrsYokiman.
Post # 9
Member
1059 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014 - Loft

Zero posts. Dramatic issue. I’m not biting. I hope for your sake this is not a “real” issue.  Can you even get married in high school? 

Post # 12
Member
978 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

This would not be in my top 79860 priorities after saying yes to spending my life with someone.

 

Post # 13
Member
3163 posts
Sugar bee

I don’t undertsand this. Who cares if she spreads rumours to friends? I could care less what anyone but those who WOULDN’T believe a rumour think. If it is beyond that then make a record of everything and take it to the police / a lawyer.

And congratulations on your engagement! Enjoy 🙂

Post # 15
Member
533 posts
Busy bee

Take the high road again. 

After you have announced your engagement to the important people in your life, but before the news has had a chance to spread; reach out to her quietly and privately and let her know that you’re engaged. Tell her it’s not to rub it in her face or make her feel bad, but you know other people may try and surprise her with the news just to see if they can get a rise out of her. 

The topic ‘How to let his ex-girlfriend know we're engaged’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors