Post # 16
Also, in the beginning I also thought he saw something I was love blind to. But everyone else in my family, as well as all of my friends , love him. They think he is a great guy and that we are great together. So it’s hard to believe my dad is right when everyone else disagrees.
Post # 17
Ah, you have done what you can and sounds like the bf did too, poor baby. If your dad is not interested ( you meant ‘uninterested’ when you said ‘disinterested’ right ? Disinterested means unbiased so for a minute I thought all was well but deduced from the rest of your post that it was not !)
All you can do, I think, is say to your father that you were hurt that he didn’t try when your bf was trying so hard, but you know you can’t make him be generous , so he will just have to put up with maybe seeing less of you etc
By The Way, is your mum in the picture ? Can she maybe have a word with him?