(Closed) How to make her feel special?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Would she be able to hold your bouquet, assist with your train?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Oh no!  Would one be able to sign, another give a speech?  This might work well if one is shyer than the other…

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

That’s probably the best plan!  You sound like a sweet and caring sister- she’s very lucky!  And you CAN’T please everyone! 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Why does the oldest have to sign?

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Check with a lawyer, I bet you can have multiple people sign. Or give her other jobs like the toast, or holding the bouquette or his ring or the shower or the bachelorette party. There are a million things for a Maid/Matron of Honor to do. It’s totally okay to have mukltiple MOHs but I think it makes everyone’s life easier if you designate who is doing what, then everyone has a job to feel special, but they don’t have to worry about who is doing what.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

@DoubleK:  I just did some google research, and I don’t think the eldest thing is correct, unless your sister is under age- how old is she?

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I don’t understand why the oldest would have to sign?  Is this just a rule of that particular church?  It sounds very odd…

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Some times the “oldest rule” is a rule of the particular church

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