(Closed) How to organize a bachelorette party *right* before the wedding.

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: When was your bachelorette party?
    Didn't have one (or don't plan to have one).. : (1 votes)
    5 %
    A few months before the wedding.(more than a month and a half) : (3 votes)
    15 %
    A month befoRe the wedding. (let's say around 3-7 weeks) : (8 votes)
    40 %
    A week or more before the wedding. : (3 votes)
    15 %
    The week of the wedding. : (1 votes)
    5 %
    The night before (or 2 nights before) the wedding.b : (4 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    14494 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I would try to go out on Friday, there are other in the wedding that will be partying with you and you really want them in the best shape for the wedding.  

    Post # 5
    3709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I am not having a bachelorette party, but I arranged my sister’s party for the week of the wedding. She got married on Saturday and the bachelorette party was on Weds. It was fun…we all piled into the stretch Navigator and went to a restaraunt/bar that does male strippers on Weds nights. We had as much fun IN the limo as we did in the restaraunt. My sister is not a big drinker but we still got her drunk…LOL. I think we were able to fit about 12 people comfortable in the limo. 

    Post # 7
    646 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @ellabee: In SF, you can get a limo for as many as you’d like. You can do anything from a town car to limo to party bus to cable car. (Mr Toad’s Tours even charters their cool old cars!)

    I’d also go for Friday. One option here in SF could be to go to Asia SF. I’ve never been, but I’ve heard good things. They’re gender illusionists and do shows, dinner, etc. In fact, there are TONS of fab restaurants here if you want to go out to a great dinner.



    Post # 8
    690 posts
    Busy bee

    Mine is the Saturday one week before the wedding.  This is close enough that one of my out of town BMs will be here, but enough time for everyone to recover!

    Post # 9
    1565 posts
    Bumble bee

    I got married on a Sunday and had my bach party on that Friday night. We got hotel rooms, spent the afternoon hanging out and waiting for everyone to congregate, then went out to a nice dinner, went to a bar afterwards, and back at the hotel about 12:30. It was definitely most convenient for my firends, who were coming in from all over the place! I think the night was more tame than an earlier party could have been, just because I wanted to be really careful with my health right before the wedding. But, my friends and me aren’t huge partiers anyway, so it worked out well for me 🙂 

    Post # 11
    158 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I would not do it the night before. I say two nights before is fine, but the way I see it I want to get a good night sleep the night before the wedding since the next day will be super busy and emotional and everything.

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