- 6 years ago
Everyone I need help! Our wedding isn’t until next October but I have been having trouble picking my bridesmaids! My Fiance is set on having 8 and he feels it will be hard to cut some men off. At first I thought 8 was way too many but now I’m kind of liking the idea. I already know for sure 6 of my bridesmaids but am having trouble picking 3 more for my total of 8. All three of these ladies I met in college and all are good friends. Of course we graduated and can’t hang out like we used to. One was my best friend through out all of college but after college we kind of fell apart. Finally after a couple of years we are starting to talk more and hung out one time and it felt like nothing has changed. For awhile though I felt like she didn’t try to hang out with me or even keep in contact until I would try to reach her. Another girl I’m thinking about having was a good friend and we do hang out here and there but not often. We text some but not all the time but I still like trying to hang out with her when I can. She wasn’t my best best friend but still close. Then the last one was a good friend in college as well and everytime she comes into town we always try to get together with another friend I know will be in my wedding. Please help me decide what to do?!?! Should I try to get 8 bridesmaids or go to a smaller number?