Post # 1
Any one have any tips on politefully declining a shower and bachelorette party?
Truth be told, having a wedding and a pre-wedding dinner is a bit of a stretch for me in terms of attending parties centered on my Fiance and I. We are both pretty lowkey people.
Is it rude if I decline a Bridal Shower and Bachelorette party?
Post # 3
Not rude to decline! I would hate to throw someone a shower they didn’t want! I would tell someone close to you like your mom, best friend etc. that you absolutely don’t want a shower bach. party etc. So they can spread the word, so it doesn’t sound weird or off putting as if you went around telling people not to throw you a party. (like you were expecting one in the first place or something) that’s just what I would do… <:
Post # 4
I would just tell people that you don’t want these things…generally your mom or any other female family member you are close with and your Maid/Matron of Honor can make sure that these things don’t happen…