(Closed) How to politely ask for money owed?

posted 9 years ago in Money
Post # 3
2470 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would let her know that you are making some personal budgets and balancing all your accounts and realized that she stills owes you $70 from that day. Ask her when she thinks she can get it to you so you don’t have a gap in your personal account. If she has serious financial woes and doesn’t think she can swing it… ask her if there is anyway she can pay a portion?

Post # 5
5399 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yikes, I hate when stuff like that happens…that’s why for the most part I try not to loan money.  I also am horrible about finding a nice way to ask for it back.  My hubby paid for the Bridesmaid or Best Man dress of one of his cousins for our wedding because she’s from out of town…our wedding was almost a year ago and she hasn’t even mentioned the few hundred dollars she owes us, so I totally feel your pain!

Post # 6
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

She most likely just forgot about it!

I don’t know how because I stress over money owed to the point that I can’t sleep but if you remind her in a nice way like GaBgal recommended I am sure she will get it back to you ASAP!

Post # 7
14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Ugh, I totally hate this sort of stuff! I think GaBgal had a great way of putting it. I really hate asking for money and I just write people checks on the spot or do it ASAP. I hate owing money. And I always feel cheap asking for it. Why? I dunno.

We always park in the same parking garage in downtown Savannah. It’s free on Saturdays and then we go pick it back up Sunday. The boots are just awful! College campuses are super strict about that stuff though. See if she’ll either pay all at once or like, $25 a month. C’mon, everyone has $25 a month. Even a sorority girl…i was in a sorority and I’d just have a lazy night instead of going out to make up for it. Or, er, pre-party at home instead of in a bar. =P

By The Way, Miss Lab, there is a really yummy thai/fusion restaurant called Tangerine in Savannah that is incredible. I had thier seafood curry and it was insane. And a lychee martini. It’d be fun for a girls’ night =]

Post # 8
3332 posts
Sugar bee

What an awkward position–I hate it when a friend owes you money.  I do like GaBGal’s suggestion.  Just bring it up casually (even in an email, if it’s easier) and say you were checking your budget and realized she still owed you the $70 from the parking incident.  Let her know that you were just checking to see if/when she’d be able to pay you.  You could even say that if she can’t pay the entire amount, you could be flexible in terms of getting the whole thing back.

Good luck!

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