(Closed) How to respond to wedding invite if you’ll be married right before the wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Gardeniabee: I would respond with your current name. That’s what we did, and so did others. You are responding as a non married couple and they will get the RSVP during the same time frame. I think that using your married name on the RSVPs is like someone writing you a check in the new name before you’re married.

Edit: It’d also be a little confusing, possibly, if they have you down as your current name and they get a response from a whole diff name.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I agree – use your current name. 

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I would use the Mr and Mrs…you will be by then

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I’d use your current. I’m sure they know that you’ll be married at their wedding so they’ll use your married name for things like escort cards.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

When’s the rsvp date?  You could wait to send it, and use your married name!

 

Oh wow.  I’m a ditz.  I’d go with current name, maybe add a small note about the name you will be at the wedding?

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think using Mr. & Mrs. would be best. She’ll want to use that on her escort cards!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I personally would use what ever they used so you dont confuse their system of counting RSVPs! =)

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Why don’t you just write the bride a note and explain the situation on your RSVP.  I’m sure she’ll appreciate it if you mention how excited you are about the wedding too.

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