(Closed) how to support my MOH- death and upcoming wedding

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2907 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@FoolsintheRain:  First and foremost, just be there. As a long time friend, you will know as the time comes if she needs something specific. All she really needs for now is your support.


If you want to do something nice in addition to that (get her nicer flowers, or something to decorate in the hospital) that’s fine. Let your best friend be the guide.

Post # 4
1589 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Wow. I’m so sorry for them. I had nothing to suggest besides just being there. I like what the previous poster said about getting her flowers and perhaps decorating a little. 

Post # 6
46672 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I suggest you ask her if she would like you to find a lovely bed jacket for her mother, assume responsibilty for some floral decor, music, a makeup artist for her and her Mom etc. She may not want any of them, but will appreciate your thoughtfulness.

When my SIL was diagnosed with a terminal brain tumor we arranged for a photographer to come and do a family portrait. Her mother treasures that picture.

Sometimes in these situations, it’s difficult to even focus on what decisions need making, much less make them yourself.

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