(Closed) How to tell a friend she is not a bridesmaid?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
10501 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

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gillja08 :  

Good Lord don’t start asking anyone to be a bridesmaid yet , it’s over two years away !!. Just keep saying you don t even   know if you’ll  have a wedding party yet or something .

It ‘ll fade away soon,  nobody will stay interested in the details of a wedding  that far away  – except you of course  ! 

Post # 17
249 posts
Helper bee

I had at least five people who expected to be bridesmaids who I didn’t ask.  I didn’t really bring it up to most of them.  I was the maid of honor for one who I’m not asking to be a member of the bridal party.  

A few brought it up to me, and I so I just said my Fiance didn’t have enough groomsman.  We want a small wedding, and we are having a small bridal party.  The people I aksed were my two oldest friends and my sister.  People were understanding.  I do think it would have been different if I asked one member of a close friend group, but not others.  

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