Post # 16
Good Lord don’t start asking anyone to be a bridesmaid yet , it’s over two years away !!. Just keep saying you don t even know if you’ll have a wedding party yet or something .
It ‘ll fade away soon, nobody will stay interested in the details of a wedding that far away – except you of course !
Post # 17
I had at least five people who expected to be bridesmaids who I didn’t ask. I didn’t really bring it up to most of them. I was the maid of honor for one who I’m not asking to be a member of the bridal party.
A few brought it up to me, and I so I just said my Fiance didn’t have enough groomsman. We want a small wedding, and we are having a small bridal party. The people I aksed were my two oldest friends and my sister. People were understanding. I do think it would have been different if I asked one member of a close friend group, but not others.