(Closed) How to tell a friend she isn't a bridesmaid, while another friend is.

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

Unless you already asked her to be a bridesmaid and now you’ve changed your mind, you don’t have to tell her anything or explain yourself.  

Post # 3
965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

I asked one girl in a friend group of 3 to be my Bridesmaid or Best Man, and just didn’t say anything to the ones I didn’t pick. You don’t have to tell anyone why you didn’t pick them, it’s not really their business.

Post # 4
1364 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2020

Don’t say anything to her. Ask Stacy, and if Stacy asks, inform her Becca is not a bridesmaid. Becca doesn’t need to be told anything, she’ll figure it out on her own, and may be mad regardless, but she’s a grown woman who can control her own feelings and reactions.

Post # 5
4102 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - Canada

I dont really think you have to tell her shes not a bridesmaid unless you’ve already told her she would be. 

Post # 6
3025 posts
Sugar bee

Don’t tell her anything. You invite Stacy to be a bridesmaid, and that’s it. It’s rude to tell someone you’re not going to invite them to go somewhere or be a part of something.

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