(Closed) How To Tell My MOH It Just Isn't Working Out? LONG…

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What Should I DO??
    I think you're being way too hard on her. You already asked her so just stick it out. : (5 votes)
    7 %
    This is your wedding and it sounds like she doesn't care much anyways. Ask your other girlfriend. : (40 votes)
    59 %
    Why not have both girls be your maid of honor? : (12 votes)
    18 %
    Just call the whole darn thing off, you're not ready for a wedding. : (11 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 17
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    125 posts
    Blushing bee

    People grow apart, it’s life.  It’s not like you won’t invite her to your wedding, but I think that based on your differences, that you should just tell her that you think it’s best that she just come as a guest.  What’s the worst that can happen?  She doesn’t come?  Sorry, but she doesn’t seem like a great friend now, so if she does that, then all that will come of it is that you know for sure that she isnt. 

    Having a great friend close by that can help you (and wants to help you) seems more important.  Who cares how long you have known her?  Remember quality over quantity.. 

    You want someone who backs you 200% right next to you on wedding day.  If someone is going to give you grief, not be involved, and be a reason for your stress and possibly unhappiness on your WEDDING DAY, she isn’t worth it.  I’ve experienced growing apart from a lifelong friend, not knowing how to comprend it- it’s not a great feeling, so I feel your pain on that.  But I found that in focusing on the great people in your life instead of harping on the ones that cause stress/concern, will help immensely.  They really are the ones that matter. 

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