(Closed) How to tell someone they aren’t invited when its not your party?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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411 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

If you’re certain that she isn’t invited, give her a call and politely apologize for accepting the carpool offer before determining who’s invited. Then explain to her that your friend had her heart set on an intimate group for the party. Hopefully she’ll be understanding about it.

Post # 4
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3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My advice would be to call your friend up and let her know that the invites have gone out and ask if she received one. If she hadn’t, just explain that the bride wanted a very small group of friends to go…

OR….

you can check with Maid/Matron of Honor and see if it’s OK to bring her along. It’s only one more person and will save both you and your friend from the awkwardness of trying to explain that she didn’t get an invite.

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