Post # 1
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Helper bee
I have a friend from college, nice girl, who keeps asking about the wedding and how she cant wait to bring her bf to my wedding *ummm what???
im not sure what to do. she keeps texting me, and i don’t know how to tell her she isnt invited. it seems my hints and attempts to change the subject aren’t working. she’s a nice girl, but i’ve already invited too many people
I screwed up and invited too many people to the engagement party so i can’t add another person…
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
@doubtingdebbieah: Just tell her you love her dearly but you’ve reached your capacity at your venue and if numbers change you will let her know.
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
i had a cousin who was planning on coming to my wedding before i was even engaged and then when the invitation arrived addressed to only her mom, she still didn’t get it. i had to totally spell it out for her, haha.
anyway, yeah, just explain you have limited space/budget and that the guestlist is full, but if a space should open up you’ll let her know.
Post # 5
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Bumble bee
@doubtingdebbieah: next time it comes up, just tell her that you are at max list and unfortunalty you coudlnt’ fit her in, and apologize
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