(Closed) How to turn down a DJ whose wife you work with!?

posted 8 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Are they invited to the wedding?  If so, pull the “I want my guests to be my guests, not have to worry about working at my wedding” 

Otherwise, be honest with her, and just say you want to go with a professional because of the backup equipment.

…. or tell her that you hired a different friendor (like, that your Future Mother-In-Law wanted you to hire FI’s cousin’s boyfriend) DJ if she’s not invited and will never know the difference.  Totally deceitful, but…. yeah.

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I would blame your Fiance. Just tell her your Fiance forgot about you asking her about it, and he already put a deposit down with someone else, and you don’t want to be out your deposit.

Post # 6
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

You are very welcome. Just make sure to clue your Fiance in, just in case it comes up in conversation 🙂

Post # 7
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9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

You’re welcome!  I usually believe that honesty is the best policy, but sometimes a teeny tiny little white lie doesn’t hurt that much… 

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