(Closed) How to wait humbly???

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@fearlessdiva:  Congrats on moving in together! ๐Ÿ™‚ I know how you feel! I have been with my Fiance for 7 1/2 years and he JUST proposed 3 weeks ago. I know it’s hard to wait and so cliché to say, but you just have to be patient and know that it’s coming, because it sounds like it is!! =^> He sounds like a guy that puts a lot of thought into things, so maybe he’s just trying to make the proposal perfect. Good luck! 

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

My SO’s lease is up and he’s moving in with me…tomorrow. I told him I’d really prefer to be engaged before he moved in, but the ring is being made so that’s good enough, I suppose! He did volunteer to stay elsewhere until it came in and he proposed. He’s like your guy in that he does his research in things; thinks everything out very thoroughly. Hopefully soon we’ll both be swapping proposal stories! 

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

My fiance and I moved in together last August…into the house he bought last November…and he didn’t propose until April.  He hinted, but I cried plenty of times along the way.  It was hard to explain to him why it mattered so much, too, because everything is so wonderful with him and I don’t need anything to change.  ANYWAY…move in with him, and give him six months.  If you don’t hear ANYTHING, bring it up.  Then…=/

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I don’t know if I’d say this 3 years from now, but as of now I think I’d wait for my Boyfriend or Best Friend to be ready, however long it takes. I’m already plenty anxious (after just under 3 years together), but I don’t think I could walk away if he didn’t propose. I know I say this now, but I’d rather be with him as his girlfriend, than lose him because of a deadline. And especially since you say yours is so special, isn’t he worth waiting for? I read this somewhere else, what’s more important to you, the proposal or the man? I don’t think there’s a right or wrong answer, it just depends on your priorities and what or who will ultimately make you happy. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

That’s awesome!  Cant wait to hear details

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

@fearlessdiva:  Yay! I was so hoping this was going to have a happy ending!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Heidi11:  I agree with you. My Darling Husband is the kind of guy that puts a lot of thought into things, he wanted to be 100% and it was perfect timing. ๐Ÿ™‚ 

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Worker bee
Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I’m sorry happy for you, but where is our proposal story lol? It has been three months.

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