(Closed) how to word RSVP follow up email?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: how do i title an RSVP message?
    Please RSVP for our wedding : (1 votes)
    7 %
    RSVP not yet received : (0 votes)
    RSVP follow up : (12 votes)
    80 %
    other - see below for suggestion : (2 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 3
    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I like RSVP follow up – it sounds the most pleasant

    Post # 4
    852 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I did the same, but put “need your RSVP” in the subject line. My own man of honor hasn’t even RSVP’d yet!

    Post # 5
    5788 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    RSVP follow up – Its the most neutral

    Post # 6
    2465 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    are there a lot of people that didn’t rsvp? we followed up with people personally who didn’t respond, which might work a little better if your people weren’t responsive the first time around–it’s harder to ignore a personal message. like, i wrote personal emails to a couple people we didn’t get responses from who i knew well– here’s the text from one email with the personal info removed–

    “Dear friend,

    I hope all is well!

    I was just writing because we hadn’t gotten your rsvp to our wedding yet. We just moved to New York, so some of our mail may have gotten lost or delayed in the moving process. However, we need to give meal choice selections to our caterer pretty soon (which are: steak, fish, or vegetarian) …Sorry to be a nag, haha! 🙂

    Thanks, and I hope to see you, your wife, and your son soon!!”

    Post # 7
    1766 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I would call them.  Since they already didn’t RSVP on time, I would not want to wait to see if they reply to the message.

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