(Closed) How to write thank you notes to my husband’s guests?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I wrote all of the thank you’s for the wedding and signed both of our names.  A wedding is about a couple – I don’t think it matters who writes the thank you’s as long as someone does.  In all of the notes, I included the word “we” – so “we really appreciate…”

Post # 4
68 posts
Worker bee

His guests are your guests, too! It was the BOTH of you who got married! So I think it’s fine to send thank you’s on behalf of you and your mister.

I wouldn’t write it as if you were him, but as it were the both of you writing the Thank You note. Perhaps have him sign his name at the bottom along with yours?

Post # 5
5797 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Thank yous should be coming from both of you so its not strange at all for you to write them. Just thank them for sharing your day and whatever gift they gave you.

Post # 6
457 posts
Helper bee

My Darling Husband and I are doing our thank you’s now as well. We are just going through and doing whomever. He has written some for my guests and vs versa, it should be from both of you so it doesn’t really matter who does the writing.

Post # 7
739 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I wrote the thank you notes to my husband’s guests.  When using pronouns, I used plural pronouns, i.e. We are looking forward to using…  I signed them from us both.

Post # 8
379 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

sign it in your name since you wrote it.  Dont pretend he wrote it and sign his name.

Post # 9
2866 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

You can write thank you notes to “his” guests as well. Like other posters said – it was a wedding for both of you and I’m sure the gifts you recieved are going to be used by both of you.

Just write them and sign both your names. I was faster at writing them than my husband was but I would ask him about the couple if I was unsure about anything so I could include more personal details in each note. He wrote a few to people I didn’t know who also didn’t attend but sent gifts.

Post # 10
1235 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

They were there and gave you BOTH gifts, not just him. I would say thank you from thw two of you.

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