(Closed) How upset would you be if your SO…

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How upset would you be?
    5 - divorce, no questions asked! : (119 votes)
    31 %
    4 : (208 votes)
    54 %
    3 : (35 votes)
    9 %
    2 : (6 votes)
    2 %
    1 - I wouldn't care : (15 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4272 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @redheadem:  Oooh man….. I couldn’t even imagine…… no idea what I would do…but it probably would not go over very well.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1555 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    That’d be divorce worthy. I can’t tolerate cheating like that.. :-

    Post # 5
    Member
    1070 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    That is prostitution and i would report him to the police.  Many of the “women” at these happy ending massage places are under aged and forced into sex work against their will.  These massage parlors are a big problem in some parts of southern ca.

    Post # 6
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    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I’d consider it just like any other cheating and would be very upset. I seriously don’t think you have anything to worry about. Those kinds of places aren’t as common as they seem on TV. There are plenty of legitimate massage places that wouldn’t get involved in that kind of thing.

    Post # 7
    Member
    2488 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We do enjoy a couples massage 🙂

    Post # 9
    Member
    1306 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I may not jump to a divorce, but we would need to work VERY hard to rebuild trust. I fel it would be possible as long as he is 100% comitted to the process. If he was not cooperative, then I would leave.

    Post # 10
    Member
    164 posts
    Blushing bee

    Ha! I voted 4 – assuming he does it without telling me he’s gonna do it. I would be ticked. If he asked for permission first, I’d likely allow it.

    Post # 11
    Member
    5009 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Erm… at present, there is absolutely no chance of it happening. It would be the lying that would determine how pissed off I’d be in future. 

    Post # 13
    Member
    1161 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I don’t even know what a happy ending is.

    Post # 14
    Member
    5118 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Blush.Champagne:  I’ll be blunt – a hand job to finish. 

    And that’d most definitely be a 4 or a 5…like a PP said, I don’t tolerate cheating, no thanks. I don’t think I could come home one day and be all “ooh, man, I totally accidentally got fingered today, NBD, Honey” and then we’d just sit down for dinner and continue on with the day. Not going to work that way.

    Post # 15
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    1264 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2019

    I would not put up with that at all. That’s cheating to me, and I have zero tolerance for cheating.

    I can’t say for sure it would break us up, but it would be a long long LONG time before I could put any trust in him again.

    Post # 16
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    1185 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @alishaloo:  Are happy endings part of the couple massages you get?

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