(Closed) How vengeful are you?

posted 9 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: How vengeful are you?
    I always wish the very best for everyone and turn the other cheek : (6 votes)
    5 %
    I always hope for justice (rather than bad)but don't think I won't chuckle if karma happens to them. : (92 votes)
    71 %
    If somebody has crossed me, I will wish for something bad to happen to them : (23 votes)
    18 %
    If somebody has crossed me, I get them back through actual actions (even sometimes counts) : (9 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 17
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Round 1 I am a pretty cool person and try not to let things bother me.  Round 2 it’s on.

    I take the high road once and only once.  And then I throw down.

    Post # 19
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    3621 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I picked the second option. I would rather cut that person out of my life, than deal with their crap again. Hopefully, they’ll get what they deserve throughout their lifetime.

    Post # 20
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    72 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    @UpstateCait: Glad I’m not the only one sista. 😉

    Post # 21
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    206 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I picked the third option.  Those ‘bad thoughts’ are usually fleeting, but I definitely still have them (e.g. hoping that b*tch gets a speeding ticket after cutting me off).  I don’t act on things because its not worth my time or energy and I think karma usually levels things out.  For me, its not always about if someone crosses me, but if they cross someone I love.  That really makes my blood boil.

    Post # 23
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I don’t ever wish anything bad to happen to another person. I am a firm believer that you get what you give, so I would never want to have “vengence” bite me in the ass. Life is all about the energy that you surround yourself with. We have a lot more power over this than many people think. If you’re negative and thinking about how to get back at someone or wishing that their life was worse those things will start to become YOUR life because it’s all what you make it. If, on the other hand, you try to stay positive and you don’t allow others to poison your life than you’ll never be in need of vegence because you only have good relationships and connections in your life.

    If someone wrongs me I cut them out of my life completely. I’m a truely loyal person and my relationships with others reflect this value. If someone can’t be loyal to me than it’s not often that I allow them close enough to be able to “burn” me in the first place.

    In the case of strangers “wronging” me I always try to think why it is that person is behaving the way they are. 9 times out of 10 people who make other people’s lives a living hell have issues of their own. People who are spiteful, cruel, or inconsiderate have either been through a lot to make them that way or they’ve never had anyone to show them what’s right. I don’t seek vegence on these people, I pity them. What a sad life it must be to have to find pleasure in other people’s pain.

    No one can “wrong” you if you don’t allow them to. It’s much more of a powerful thing to own your emotions and not allow negative people to ruin your life than it is to “get even.” Every single person on this planet has the ability to do this, no matter their circumstances, so there should never be a need for vengence.  

    Post # 24
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    72 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    @Socrates: I guess no one else cared to confess, lol!

    Post # 25
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    10285 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @Lady_Love: We’re not the only ones. I guarantee it! 

    Post # 27
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    4304 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @Socrates: I agree.  If I am gonna say something, it’s going to be to their face.

    Post # 30
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    5147 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I usually just don’t associate with the person anymore.

    If they’ve done something really bad, I may do something for revenge.

     

    My ex-husband and I were high school sweethearts and got married at 18. I found out later he was cheating on me. (He become a habitual liar and cheater, hence why he’s “ex”!) The main girl I found out he was cheating on me with was a friend of his and had actually been a guest at our wedding!

    She was still in high school at the time (a year younger than my ex and I), and she lived out on a farm so the internet was like her lifeline.

    I knew about some nudie pics of her that had gotten posted on a “teen webcam” site. She didn’t post them, but she was a slut and sent multiple guys her nudie pics, someone else had posted them, so she couldn’t take them down.

    So I sent her parents a link to their daughter’s naked online pics. Didn’t see her online after that until she had graduated high school and moved out of her parents house!

    I know that’s mild, but at her age that would suck. And it made me feel better. She was a slut, probably still is.

    Post # 31
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    3575 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I pretty much just let it roll off my back because I do believe in karma and it will come back to bite them right in the ass.

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