(Closed) How well do you know your husband’s friends?

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Some of his friends I definitely share a mutual friendship with, but not all of them.  I would say that I know them all fairly well though.

Post # 4
3142 posts
Sugar bee

I’m starting to share the friendship since FH got deployed. I lean on one for a lot of stuff since he is miltary himself and knows the answer to a lot of my questions

Post # 5
1466 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Father's Vineyard Church/ A Touch of Class Banquet Center

Since Mr. D is my college sweetheart, I know most of his friends pretty well. Some of his friends I would even now consider my own. I’ve even met most of his friends from high school since he is from a small town and they all seem to go back there after college, at least for a short time. Mr. D knows most of my friends as well, but I wouldn’t go as far as to say he is mutual friends with any of mine.

Post # 6
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

We have mostly mutual friends, but some he has through work I don’t really know. The mutual friends though, are some friends of mine for years that he is now friends with, or vice versa. So yeah, I know them really well

Post # 7
1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Darling Husband & I were high school sweet hearts..his 2 bestfriends now are the same 2 best friends from high school.  I know them very well and call them my brothers.

I should add that those are the 2 friends of his that I’m closest to, I’m not that close to his other buddies. 

Post # 8
688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

They are our best friends. I met Fiance in high school, and became bff with him and his friends. We were friends for 3 years before we started dating. So his groomsmen are kind of like “our” groomsmen and it’s really nice that way!

Post # 9
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

Depends on the friends. We have mutual friends, some are more of his friends, and usually I’ll be friends with his friend’s wives.

Post # 10
7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I know my husband’s friends very well. His best friend and I have hung out alone at times and I consider him one of my close friends now too. Most of his friends are mutual friends of mine. I’ve hung out with all of his friends enough to know them fairly well.

Post # 11
3671 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I know his closest friends really well.  I don’t really know his work friends or the friends he only talked to in class in college but I know his best friend as well as his brother (his very best friend), pretty well.  

Post # 12
7404 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I know and like all of his friends, but am not close with most of them.  I am close with one of the wives though.

Post # 13
2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I consider them semi-mutual. I’ve known them for 10 1/2 years, since Fiance and I started dating, and we all used to hang out together. However, after I got pregnant, and had Dirty Delete, his time with them has been more of just ‘guy’ time, and we only get together occassionally as a group (New Years, weddings, BBQs, etc.).

Post # 14
13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Since Darling Husband and I were good friends before we started dating, most of our friends are mutual friends.  He does have some friends from work that I’ve only met a couple of times though.

Post # 15
2161 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I don’t know a few of the bachelor ones, but we have some mutual friends.  He was married at 42, so the 40+ year old bachelors and I don’t have a lot in common.  I have a 3 year old and am not in the party mode anymore.   Darling Husband wasn’t really into it either, but there were just a few bachelors out there at his age.  

Post # 16
286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Not my husband yet but I’m really bad about this. I met him in college but we went to different schools and we mostly hung out with my friends. After he graduated he got stationed in Twenty-Nine Palms and I never had any interest in being there plus we weren’t married. So the friends he makes are really just his friends. I need to get better about that as he knows tons of my friends but I could really only name like 4 or 5 and I never talk to them.

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