(Closed) How wild (or tame) did you get at your bachelorette party?

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Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Haven’t had my bachelorette party yet but I’m commenting to follow!

I have given strict instructions that I am not comportable with penis decor, etc. and don’t want to go to a strip club.

HOWEVER, I have planned 2 bachelorette weekends as Maid/Matron of Honor and there were lots of penis things and strip clubs and naked men bc that’s what the brides wanted. I am hoping my ladies don’t mind taming down for me lol I would prefer a relaxing day of shopping, spa or something like that then a nice dinner and night at the bar.

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

We started the day by going to an indoor trampoline park, then we went back to my house (my moh’s house is under 600 sq ft, no room for 10-15 girls!) and we had a TON of snacky food, and we made flower crowns (this ended up being a super handy way to distinguish our group later). 

Once that was done, we went to a local English pub style restaurant to have dinner, and then we went to a gay bar/club. No creepy dudes to hit on us, score!

I got absolutely and completely shitfaced drunk at the end there. People were bringing me doubles, I did a few shots. I held it together mostly but at the end of the night I was a wreck. I almost lost my fake tooth throwing up in a bush (my moh’s husband/our DD was a trooper and groped around in the dark to find it) and when we got back to the house, I laid down on the living room floor and REFUSED to move to my bed. So one Bridesmaid or Best Man slept on the couch to keep an eye on me. 

This is later in the night. I look a little rough.

I was SO incredibly hungover the next day. Goodness. 

edited to add: the only penis thing at my bachelorette was a bracelet from SIL’s bachelorette. It was a simple chain with 6 tiny technicolor penises on it lol. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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onceuponadream:  my moh’s did an amazing job planning. The entire day was a surprise for me, I knew absolutely nothing going in. I was just told ‘be ready for noon and wear a sports bra’.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

We have the same group of mixed gender friends and so we did a co-ed bachelor/ette party with our favorite people. We got a party bus and bar hopped. It was so much fun and being with my fiancé was great too! Untraditional but we all had a great time and there was zero drama or questions about how the other spent their evening. 

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

I’m hoping to have a ladies who lunch whole day with cupcakes and sandwiches for my more civilised friends and then us hell raisers will hopefully end up in a sweaty club laughing our heads of while we throw some shapes. I am massively excited to get all my girls together, dressed up in something themed and then have a ball. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee

Originally, I was planning on a laid back night in. Maybe play some games. Think Ben’s bachelor party on “Parks and Rec.”

My Maids of Honor didn’t like that… they’re both a little more wild than me, and a little more traditional, too. We tried to agree on something, and in the end I told them they can plan it however they’d like. There was mention of a wine tasting tour that takes you to different petting zoos along the way… I hope they stick with that!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

While my party won’t be for a while, I stole this idea from someone else and told all my friends it’s what I want. 

I’d like to rent a house with a pool and just have a big girl sleepover, rose and chamagne. Depending on what everyone’s fine spending- having a chef come in adn make a big dinner or all cook together. maybe get massages etc. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper

That day I had a surprise shower with some mimosas, then a nap. My bachelorette was seeing a cirque du soliel show with my Maid/Matron of Honor, we had huge drinks as per tradition with seeing a show. I finished hers. She had to drive. I didn’t need chippendales or thunder from down under, my 20’s was one big party having fun being single. One silly night of penis straws would have been a silly waste

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

Not had my Hen party yet, but I’m hoping I will get rather drunk! I normally do (eeeeekkkk- lightweight) though lately I’ve been a bit better at controlling myself but yes I want to let loose and have a great time, be merry but not “turn” as we call it (where I become unaware completely of what im doing…it has happened a few times-very embarrassed of myself).

I want to do some sort of fun actvity in the day, not sure what yet..and then maybe a meal, party bus and then hit the nightclub to dance the night away! I don’t mind a few penis things…for me I think it adds to the fun! My sister didn’t want any penis related items at hers…but we managed to get a blow up penis in and some penis straws…What did she hold all night? Yes the blow up penis and there were many photo’s with the straws too! (I knew she’d love them really haha)

Looking forward to hearing all the stories! 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

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DoubleA903:  Atlantic city is where I planned one of the bachelorette weekends! I rented a beach house over the bridge and reserved dinners, etc in the casinos. The main event was going to a comedy at one of the casinos… can’t remember which one but it was a blast!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

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asobos:  This is partly what I planned for the other bachelorette weekend I did as a MOH- we had a girls night in 5th grade sleepover style but with wine. We did spa masks, crafts, etc. So fun!

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