(Closed) How worried should I be?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
696 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I would be a little worried. If she still does not have it by next week I would start to panic lol..maybe start brainstorming for a backup plan?

Post # 4
705 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 1993

Is it due to her not ordering or the shop not delivering? 

Post # 5
696 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

unless the dress is in and it is just a case of her not picking it up yet, in which case I wouldnt worry because obviously she is not going to show up without it haha

Post # 6
1475 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014


I would be worried.

Is it something she can walk in and purchase or does it have to be ordered? Does it have to be altered?

Post # 8
8430 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Maybe she hasn’t found the right dress yet and doesn’t want to compromise with any old black dress just yet. An off the rack black dress is pretty easy to come by so I wouldn’t be too worried.

Also could she be facing some financial hardship that you are unaware of?

Post # 9
52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

If it makes you feel any better, two of my bridesmaids are yet to buy their dresses and you and I are date twins… My BMs are procrastinating, not making a statement about their commitment and as they already know the elements they need to co-ordinate with (pink heels and bouquets) there’s no reason I NEED to know what their dress is (though I am, of course, so curious to see what they pick!)

Post # 10
1849 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Katnisseverdeen:  I wouldn’t worry 🙂 

A nice black dress is easy enough to come by. Maybe she’s waiting for a sale or already knows where she’s going to buy it off the rack? 

Edit: Oops, j_jaye I basically copied what you said. 

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