(Closed) How would this make you feel?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

sounds like she isn’t happy they got divorced at all.  I’ve never understood why people need to hang on to old families and exes like this. I am still “friends” with my first love from highschool – but like friends on facebook and see him once in a blue moon when he’s in my city.  Sure it’s great they are friendly, but how long were they married? I could see if they were married for 20 years that she would feel that his family is like hers, but at the same time….awkward.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

As a child of divorced parents…I wish my folks got along and were civil….I will leave it at that….

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Who the hell makes their ex spouse the godparent to the kid they had with someone else?  That’s idiotic.  

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I got divorced from my 1st husband about 8 years ago and haven’t spoken to him since. But we don’t have kids together -or oddly been appointed god parents to our next spouse’s kids. I just find it all weird, honestly.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@dlbaqua:  

mmhmm…in any case I wouldn’t let it bother me.

Post # 12
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think it shows a great level of maturity that your Fiance and ex#1  and #2 were able to get along so well. We don’t all have to hate our exes. After all, we loved them once or we wouldn’t have married them.

She does however sound like she has some problems of her own if she c/o never speaking to FI’s son but then never calls him.

Be grateful they only talk sporadically and that they get along when they are together at family occasions. There are many worse situations.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

The son is not hers, was never her step son, was never living with her…she’s out of control and this situation is really weird.  The whole thing is just messed up. I totally see where you’re coming from OP, I get that it’s nice to be civil and friends etc, but this is more than that, and if it makes you uncomfortable, your Fiance needs to draw some boundaries.  WHo posts things on FB saying it would have been their anniversary?  That’s just creepy.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

this sounds like some middle school drama

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