(Closed) How would you feel?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 32
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Newbee

Yes, it depends on what she really want to say, I think If you are a close friend than she just kidding with u.

Post # 33
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Blushing bee

I am a Bridesmaid or Best Man for one of my closest friends soon, and I love her dearly but the finacial strain is real. I am currently in between jobs due to circumstances, and she chose an expensive venue which I need to fly to because it’s so remote and I will also need to fly to her Hen party. This doesn’t make me less committed as her Bridesmaid or Best Man, but I do think it should be acknowledged that weddings can be a significant financial committment for many of those involved.

I haven’t felt the need to say anyof this to her, but if she asked for any further financial committments from me I might have to say that it’s really hurting my already tight budget. I don’t think it was necesssarily 100% mean, it might be a politely worded request for respite (I couldn’t afford to pay for my own dress for example).

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