(Closed) How would you feel about this?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Um, I would NOT be ok with that.  At all.  If she wanted to have his babies she had plenty of years with him to do so.  I’d tell her to go find another sperm donor.

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Oh my GOD!

In my opinion, our children will be the only childre created by his sperm and my eggs. I know that sounds silly but it is emotional. As a woman, she should understand that. If she argues that it is just DNA, tell her there are a trillion other sperm donors out there that would be happy to give some DNA but their relationship is over and she needs to get out of your life.

I am so sorry you have to deal with this. Hold your guns. Its not even about the child support issue (which is a concern) but you and your FH are starting a family together. She must really respect him to ask him (and you) to do this. But this is simply not right especially if you don’t feel right about it.

Post # 5
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5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’d ask why he was even considering this (after yelling NO WAY IN H*LL)

Post # 6
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1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Is your Darling Husband considering this?!?

Post # 7
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1944 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

OH HELL NO!

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

She had her chance.  Move on, lady.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Personally I would not be okay with this.  I would feel like it was time for them to move on with their separate lives.  I would want my SO to father my children and my children only.  I know that sounds selfish but I tend to be jealous.  I would want to create a solid line between his old marriage and his new one with me.

Post # 11
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9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Incognito5335: It seems as if she always wants a connection.  Time to cut the ties.

Post # 12
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1002 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Um… NO! I would definitely not be ok with this!

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