(Closed) How would you feel about your fiance having strippers at his bachelor party?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
  • poll: How do you feel about strippers at your fiance's bachelor party?

    Over my dead body! There'd be no wedding after if he did.

    I wouldn't tell him what to do, but I wouldn't like it.

    Hell yes! I love watching strippers with my fiance. Mmmmm titties.

    Only if I have strippers too, to make it even.

    I don't really care.

    I'd be furious and make his life hell for a while, but I'd still marry him.

  • Post # 18
    573 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @sarahfw:  our motto is ” you can do anything that your partner would be fine seeing/reading/hearing “. If we think the other would have a problem then its probably a little shady and we shouldn’t be doing it. That being said, watching is fine but touching, lap dances are crossing the line IMO. I’ve been to male reviews and I know I’m not being shady or consider anything I do cheating so I trust it would be the same for him. 

    Post # 19
    6263 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    It doesnt bother me at all. My husband went to a popular strip club out here the night before our wedding. 

    Post # 20
    1088 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @MrsClumsy:  +1

    I don’t care either way. I doubt it would be his idea to go to a strip club or have a stripper, but if his best friend is planning things who knows. It’s all about them having fun and making good hilarious memories, so as long as he has a good time and doesn’t touch or rather grope (other than him getting a lap dance which I wouldnt’ care about) or have any type of sexual relations with anyone I don’t care. He could go to a strip club tonight and I wouldn’t be phased.

    Post # 21
    636 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Eh…I don’t have real strong feelings about it. He’s gone to the strip club for bachelor parties, and our rule is that he doesn’t get lap dances at those. But for his bachelor party, he can get one if he wants. He’s really not all that into it, though. He’s too shy. He’s got some rowdy friends who I’m sure will buy him one or two but he’s not the one shoving the single in the g-string. He wouldn’t care if I had strippers at my bachelorette, either.

    Post # 22
    770 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    Doesn’t bother me!  I know he watches videos, and all the other normal stuff, and this is the same thing to me.  He comes home to me afterwards, and he would never do anything I would not approve of. 

    Post # 23
    1413 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2000

    I probably like titties just as much as he does, maybe more lol

    Post # 24
    4145 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I would have dealt with going to a strip club but hiring strippers to come to your party? Hell no. 

    Post # 25
    7225 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I didn’t care. He could have all the strippers in the world. I don’t see it as cheating & I trust him explicitly.

    Post # 26
    785 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    Literally could not care less. Tho my man’s philosophy on strippers is “why would I go to the zoo when there is a perfectly good petting zoo at home!” Not that he thinks I’m a zoo animal, but you get the point…  

    Post # 27
    2 posts
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I voted I love watching strippers with my fiancé. We have a very open and candid relationship where we completely trust each other and we have gone to strip clubs together. I love boobs as much as he does and we pay for each others lap dances. He has gone to friend’s bucks parties at strip clubs with just the boys and had lap dances and felt up the dancers and I have no issue with it. He tells me about it afterwards and he honestly tells me how attractive she was, there’s never any doubts that it went further than a lap dance so it’s just a bit of fun and is a non issue. He’s fine with me touching male strippers too. We always joke that as most strippers do not have natural boobs as big as mine I have nothing to worry about lol.


    Post # 29
    653 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Our Backyard/Steakhouse

    Not only would i encourage strippers, if that’s what he wanted…i’d likely get up on the pole! LOL – just kidding but honestly, I trust him enough to know that it would just be a night out and that nothing would happen.

    Post # 30
    774 posts
    Busy bee

    @sarahfw:  I told Fiance if he wanted to have strippers that was fine, but I was going to go work for a night at our local strip club. 

    Post # 31
    494 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    It wouldn’t feel like cheating to me at all. Even if he touched the strippers and even if he got multiple lap dances. 😉 I also would go to strip clubs with him, no problem though i’m not like “yumm tits” or anything. 😉


     When I was first getting to know him and he was just a friend he went off on a tangent talking about this one stripper in Canada he thought was drop dead gorgeous.  If I heard him talking about how hot a stripper was at his bachelor party a year or two later I would probably be jealous.  But I wouldn’t feel cheated on, angry or whatever, I’d just insecure.  If that makes sense.  

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