(Closed) How would you feel about your fiance having strippers at his bachelor party?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
  • poll: How do you feel about strippers at your fiance's bachelor party?

    Over my dead body! There'd be no wedding after if he did.

    I wouldn't tell him what to do, but I wouldn't like it.

    Hell yes! I love watching strippers with my fiance. Mmmmm titties.

    Only if I have strippers too, to make it even.

    I don't really care.

    I'd be furious and make his life hell for a while, but I'd still marry him.

  • Post # 48
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    Busy bee

    I can’t vote, as while I don’t want strippers at my bachelorette party, I don’t care if FH has them at his bachelor party.  There’s not really an option for that in the poll though.

    ETA: Oh, sorry, you just added more poll options.  Okay, I voted “I don’t care”.

    Post # 49
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Could care less. Trust him completely.

    Post # 50
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    Buzzing bee

    @aussiemum1248:  “I’m not OK with strippers at any time. DH and I have always been on the same page about this. And if something’s not acceptable in a relationship, it doesn’t become acceptable because one of them is at a bachelor(ette) party.

    This.

    Post # 51
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I wouldn’t have cared. 

    Post # 52
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    I would be furious if he had strippers at his bachelor party, he knows I am not ok with it. And he isn’t ok with them either so that’s a relief!

    Post # 53
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    My Brother-In-Law said that he would take Fiance to see strippers.  I was okay with that, as long as it was at a club, and not brought to him, say at a hotel.  The thing was my sister, his wife, said she wanted to go along, but I couldn’t.  Not that I would want to, but it seemed weird.  She said I should trust him enough, but yet she wanted to go!

    Anyway, I would not like it, but I wouldn’t tell him what to do.

     

    Post # 54
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    I’d laugh, tbh. Fiance would be so uncomfortable with it that it would be comical. But I’d be a little upset at the friend who arranged it.

    Post # 55
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I really don’t care if my Fiance goes somewhere to watch strippers at a club.  But, based on what I have heard goes on I would never allow strippers in the house.  The private stripping shows tend to get out of hand in my opinion and make it to easy for slip ups.

    Post # 56
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I didn’t mind him going to the strippers, but 1 or 2 just at a house party or something would be sketchy.

    Post # 57
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    900 posts
    Busy bee

    Only if I’m invited!  I want to be able to enjoy the show, too.  I like T&A just as much as he doea (and have gotten quite a bit more of it than he has), and would love to see a floor show.

    As far as I’m aware, I’m the only one of the two of us that has actually been to a strip club.  Granted, it was a very nice one (food was served, the stripping was only partial and was just entertainment, and the food was $400 a plate), but…

    Post # 58
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

    Doesn’t bother me at all. Fiance is going to a strip club for his bachelor party but he’s been to “worse” bachelor parties in the past. At one, 2 girls put down a tarp and did a dildo show that involved toys, suckers, and pudding… 

    To me, it just reinforces the notion that sex workers are trashy. He knows that they are dirty and would never actually do anything with one (why pay for it when he can get it for free at home?) 

    Post # 59
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    Honestly, I would prefer he didn’t, but I also think it would be kind of funny.  He is pretty shy and would be SO uncomfortable.  Lap dances and touching I’d have a problem with 

    Post # 60
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    I used to have a huge issue with it, but now I feel completely secure with myself and our relationship. I don’t care. He says he doesn’t want that (strip club), but I told him I honestly didn’t care.

    I agree with a PP. Strip club is cool. Strippers at a private location is not cool with me.

    Post # 61
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    Bumble bee

    @MichiganGirl24:  +1

    Same thing for my Fiance. He doesn’t go to clubs because they are ridiculously exploitive to women. It’s something he’s just not interested in and the people he surrounds himself aren’t into it either.

    If for some reason he finds himself at a strip club or with strippers I wouldn’t have an issue. We have clear boundaries in our relationship of what’s ok and what’s not. Also I’d hope that he remember that just because this woman shows her body for a living doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve respect.

     

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