(Closed) How would you feel if MOH did this to you?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would feel pretty hurt. The fact that she knew she had a responsibility today and got drunk would bother me the most. I am so sorry hun. I wish I knew what to tell you to do. I am just not good like that.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Ya no excuse… She knew today was ur party and decided to get drunk? That’s ridiculous 

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2014

There is no excuse at all…she should have apologized profusely and it still would not have been acceptable.  I would invite her to the wedding but explain that you need a Maid/Matron of Honor that is dependable.  I am not having one of my oldest closest freinds because she would probably do somethign like this.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

I would definitely be upset, I’m sorry =(

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: Central Park

She sounds like a shitty friend.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@echolove:  I’d feel hurt. Since she had already committed to coming that was pretty irresponsible of her.

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper

Has she actually said she isn’t coming? Maybe she has arranged to get to the party herself.

Whilst it is shitty that she did not get in contact with you about the lift, it is kind of unfair to say she didn’t show when the party has not even started yet. She may turn up.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 1998

You have every right to be pissed. She has really let you down.

She may however still show up ( hopefully not too drunk because would not be good)

Try not to let this spoil your night 🙂 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

My 2nd Maid/Matron of Honor (which was supposed to have been my BFF) did this exactly. I called her to see where she was. She was about an hour away, drunk and she said she didn’t have a babysitter for her son to be able to go. I still did not hold this against her. I didn’t want to kick her out of the wedding and ruin our friendship. Guess what she ended up doing? Sending me a FB message backing out of the wedding 4 months before the date… Yeah and that’s not the worst. She KNEW I was having computer trouble and I did not have internet access so I got the message a WEEK late!!! Expect for her to back out at the last minute. She has shown you she is not reliable.

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