How would you feel if your husband did this?

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 46
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8016 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i probably would have laughed at him and told him he was being ridiculous.  and then asked him what he thought he gained by doing that on the internet.

 

Post # 48
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2387 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2017 - Outside in Paris

Did you ask him how he would have felt if you were online dating willies?? 

I think it’s good that he told you. I would support him in getting help. There’s a lot going on with him.

Post # 49
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18 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2017

tiffani007 :  Oh wow. I would be upset and frustrated…. and then for me, maybe a little insecure that this could potentially happen again. He broke your trust. Your feelings are justified. It was right for him to tell you, as there should be no hiding anything in a marriage… and you are right to forgive him after he has seeked forgiveness. But it sounds like what he’s not understanding is that just because you have forgiven, doesn’t mean you’re automatically healed from the hurt he caused. I’m not sure what your conversations have been, but maybe (very calmly, as guys tend to be so darn sensitive sometimes) try to explain that if the roles were reversed, he would be hurt, insecure from the now broken trust, and confused as to why other people’s opinions matter more than his. *HUGS*

Post # 51
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6 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2014

To me it sounds like he posted the picture because he felt insecure about his appearance, but, as you, his wife noticed, his penis looks rather good; and as other posters noted, even if you gain weight, a penis is a penis. Stays the same. 

So, he turned to the internet fishing for compliments. 

I wouldn’t be too concerned about an anonymous internet photo as much as about what caused that insecurity and what can be done to help it. 

But then again, this has never happened to me, so I don’t know how I would actually react 

Post # 52
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172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Ok wait. Have you guys never heard of the site Critique my Dick Pic? https://www.thehairpin.com/2014/01/what-ive-learned-from-my-side-job-critiquing-dick-pics/

OP, I’m really hoping your husband submitted his pic to this site, because in that case, I think it’s a total non-issue. 

This website is a gender stereotype role-reversal kind of thing, and the woman who runs it is funny, frank (no pun intended) and candid. 

I’m honestly curious – has anyone heard of this website?

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