(Closed) How would you feel/what would you do?! *long* (BM help)

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What would you do?
    You are feeling bad for no reason. : (6 votes)
    25 %
    Oh man...I'd be so upset too. : (2 votes)
    8 %
    Have her just be a reader as planned. : (7 votes)
    29 %
    Have her also light a candle at Church - that is really sweet : (7 votes)
    29 %
    Reader is like a slap in the face, esp since you haven't asked yet. Cut her completely. : (1 votes)
    4 %
    Another way I could incorporate her. : (1 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I don’t think you need to feel bad about this. People choose their bridesmaids based on a hundred different factors, and I’m sure she doesn’t feel slighted at all and understands that with the amount of family you have, it would be impossible to draw the line. I had my brother’s girlfriend as a bridesmaid, because I was keeping things “in the family” … but I have zero expectation of being a bridesmaid when she and my brother get married, because I know she has a zillion close friends and would probably choose them. It’s not a quid pro quo thing at all!

    It’s sweet of you to worry so much about her feelings, but I’m sure she is fine and both cousins will feel honored to be asked to do a reading during the ceremony. Hey, you saved her some money on buying a bridesmaid dress!

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