Post # 1
Hey ladies if your husband wasn’t satisfying you sexually. As in not making you c*m. Would you tell him that he isn’t doing it? Or would you just fake it and continue to boost his ego? I have been around my female friends who would talk about their SO saying that can’t make it happen but she told him he does it. Whenever we had those types of conversations she would mysteriously leave the room to not participate in the company.
Post # 3
He knows he can’t make me c*m and I really don’t care. So it doesn’t matter to us. (We only have sex a couple of times a month because we both are crippled with arthritis in the hips)
Post # 4
Unless you never want to orgasm again for the rest of your marriage, you tell him!
Post # 5
I would tell him. You two should be completely open and honest. And honestly if you are not being satisfied I don’t see that boosting anyone’s ego in the long run.
Some women can only orgasm through the clit. Try different things (oral) and see what works for you. You can do this after he finishes. Then both people are happy! Also, you can rub yourself down there while you two are doing it. There are so many different things you can try before just giving up and faking it through. Good lcuk! 🙂
Post # 6
Honest is the best policy. Tell him or else he will never make the effort in the future, if you know what I mean….
Post # 7
Um, we are in this for life??? He will know what’s going on down there 🙂 Seriously, though, sex is not only fun and about pleasure, it brings two people together in an intimate way that no other people in their lives get to connect to them. If you aren’t satsified, you may become resentful. Sex is not the basis of a marriage, but it’s something only you two share and should be fulfilling for both partners.
Post # 8
Depending on how old you are you’ve got 30-50 years of this to go. Don’t let it be an unsatisfied sex life. If you can get to the big O on your own, then your half way there.
Post # 9
Talk to him, but be gentle. Tell him how good it feels but that you’d like to try some other things to get you off. I had this convo with my man early on b/c I don’t get off from just sex. He always takes care of me after 🙂
Post # 10
I’d talk to him and guide him. How is he ever going to learn what DOES get you off if he thinks he is already doing it because you fake it?