(Closed) How would you handle this?

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

will your venue allow you to do a separate bar vs food count? if so, that would be the easy part. maybe your mum can give you an assessment of potential headcount (based on what she’s hearing / sensing) closer to the time.

formal invites may make people feel more obligated to come for the entire event (which it doesn’t sound like you necessarily want). would she be comfortable doing it via word of mouth / more informally letting them know?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Honestly? I wouldn’t add them into your counts since they aren’t eating. They might have a drink or two, which will offset the people you are paying for who don’t drink. How many people is it?

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