(Closed) How would you handle this? Taking away MOH label.

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2715 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

DO NOT demote her.  That will seriously damage if not ruin your relationship.  It’s never nice to tell someone they aren’t as important or special to you as you had lead them to believe.  How would you feel? 

However, if T is really important to you, why not have 2 MOHs?


Post # 4
1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@TMB47:  have 2

Post # 6
513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@TMB47:  I definitely say have two MOH’s. T can always be your first Maid/Matron of Honor, and N can be your second. I think it’s understandable if you tell N that you want both of your sisters as MOH’s. Plus, no demoting and no damaging of relationships.

Post # 7
652 posts
Busy bee

Ditto to two Maid/Matron of Honor. I have two also and there is nothing wrong with that!

Post # 8
3152 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

@TMB47:  they can both do a toast! Don’t demote her- it will cause unnecessary drama. 

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