- 9 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
Oh my goodness! That is insane!
Oh my goodness! That is insane!
@j_jaye: That was really cool of her friends to make her dream come true! And the request was coming from a friend, not the bride herself. Yeah, definitely a different situation than “just got back from Hawaii, everyone please give me money for a wedding you may or may not be invited to, kthanks!”
This thread is seriously awesome.
@pippyskiddles: If I were paying for mine on our lonesome (Thanks mom and dad for all the generosity) I would never send something like this, I would o what we could afford. I probably wouldn’t do a large reception, maybe something back at the house for family. I wouldn’t respond and I wouldn’t go to the wedding. I also wouldn’t send a gift. This is way out of line
I only got to read the first page… but doesn’t the bride realize that if 300 people come, she will most likely get more that $20 pp in wedding gifts/money?? She could avoid offending her 300 guests and she’d probably be rolling in the dough later on. This is both rude and short sighted!!
Also, it being a “potluck dinner” … does this mean I would have to bring my own dish too? Or, you know, pick up some Burger King along the way?
I just dont understand…
(Sorry if these things have been brought up in previous pages… I just had to jump in now! Lol)
Why does everyone assume this chick is young? I’m young and would never think to do this, not to get all offended but really everytime someone starts acting selfish and self-centered they are assumed to be young, just because a person has “grown up” doesn’t mean they are any less self-centered. This could be a 40 year old women for all we know!
OP: Is this a joke? Is she really serious?! I would tell her to shove her wedding up her *** and that $200 that I was going to give as a gift at the wedding is going to go to my wedding fund instead!
Holy crap I can’t believe that is for real! I would annonymously send her this entire thread.
I think this kind of solicitation is becoming more popular for events and projects other than weddings. My facebook feed has fairly frequent requests for donations on kickstarter to fund people’s plays and movie projects that they’ve been cast in, etc. I blocked a former aquaintance from my feed because he was out of control, posting escalating demands daily the way charities increase the intensity of their pleas when facing urgent need like the foodbank running out of food or natural disaster leaving people homeless.
I’m really embarassed for this girl that she thinks her 300 person wedding should require charity from others. There’s no point being embarassed for this type of person though, they’ll never understand that the universe does not exist to please them.
*Reaches for popcorn*
everyone says they wouldnt respond, well I would! lol send her a brochure on eloping I’m happy you shared this, it’s really quite unbelievable. the other bees are probably right about not responding, but if you were to here is what I would say.
I understand that you are haveing a hard time with the finacials of a wedding, but I think you should take it as a sign to wait. If you don’t have the money now, perhaps having a longer engagement where you can save money would be best. I would also like to be completely honest with you and let you know that the emails requesting a donation are in poor taste and I wouldn’t send anything like that again.
I hope you understand where I am coming from.
please tell us whe you end up doing and or saying i would love to know
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