Post # 392
This girl CLEARLY does not understand what the purpose of a wedding is. If she can’t afford to host a WEDDING, she can still get married. But asking friends and family to “chip in” towards the cost of a party that they are supposed to be hosting is downright stupid.
I have no words. How close are you to this person? I’d either suggest she postpones a reception until she can afford it, or just has a very tiny party with closest people only, which I guess she can afford.
This is CRAZY.
Post # 393
I’ve already read this post but I didn’t want to comment because I have nothing new to say. However, I was having a horrible day and I needed something to cheer me up so I went back and reread this stupid woman’s emails. Needless to say I feel much better. Thanks for posting this!
Post # 394
Ummm….clearly you can’t afford a weddding……SO DON’T HAVE ONE….You have no right to mooch off of you’re family and friends. errr…this is insane.
Post # 395
Don’t respond. I’ll assume she’s young and obviously doesn’t know any better. The principle is to live within your means. If you want to get married and don’t have the means wait or hit city hall.
Post # 396
Oh lord. This is too much. I hope she sends you another!! These are fun to read!
Post # 397
Tacky, rude and a slap in the face, especially after this: “We do ask though that if you do donate, there be no strings attached. What I mean by this is that I don’t want you to feel cheated if we have to cut back on our guest list because we just can’t find a venue big enough to hold everyone we want to share our special day with. “
So basically, you need to donate $ to their wedding, but don’t be upset if you don’t end up being invited. What a bitchy move.
They need to learn to be responsible with their money and not rack up debt. If they can’t afford a huge wedding, then they shouldn’t have one (or wait until they can afford it). And yes, you can have a lovely dream wedding without being extravagant!
And yes, I would respond so she knows how rude this is!
Post # 398
I think OP should set up a new, anonymous email account to email this thread to her, and then report back.
Post # 399
@pippyskiddles: So tacky and rude. I’m baffled by this CRAP. i would actually respond to tell her this is inappropriate and she could remove me from the guest list. ugh.
Post # 400
Give us money, but don’t be offended if you don’t get an invite.
You’ve gotta be kidding. There is no way in heck that is serious. (Okay I know it’s real but my mind is blown).
I’d save her the 19.95 and RSVP ‘no way’.
Post # 401
lol this is crazy. i cant go through all the posts and comments because it’s 10+ pages long. but im wondering did she send this to ALL the guests? how embarrassing! even to send it to a close group of friends is embarrassing, but for this to go out to 300+ people…omg!
Post # 402
@SoupyCat: I think OP should set up a new, anonymous email account to email this thread to her, and then report back.
100%. That she would send these out completely boggles my mind.
Post # 403
Okay, so this is NOT cool. I would not even respond.
Post # 404
Next thing you know, she’ll want family and friends to contribute to their new house, to their annual vacations, to their childrens’ college funds…where would it end with someone like this. Yeesh.
Post # 405
Oh man, when this popped back up, I was really hoping there was a new email.. hahah
Post # 406
I am glad that this thread popped back up .. reading all of the updates makes me feel like this wasnt just a thread to get us all riled up.. it is just sooo hard to believe that someone would have the audacity to send this email!! I agree with opening an anonymous account to send her this thread.
lol .. thats all