- 3 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
Some people on here are pretty mean. I might be a sensitive personality type. But I understand why you are upset. The way I see it is that you have gone to the effort of working out a date in advance that works for everyone. You expect if the date is agreed that they will commit to it. That comment is a very non-committal type comment and says she is. It really committing whole heartedly. I personally would rather someone just flat out tell me they don’t want to go – I would find that less offensive. Everyone can have something change out of their control at the last minute that we don’t plan for that means we have to adapt – we don’t live our lives planning for those things to happen before they do. For everyone telling you to get over yourself. Perhaps they should take a leaf out of the book of 50/50 relationships. That is you get what you give and i hope that when something upsets them they just get told to get over themselves. Chin up floss. You are entitled to feel happy about your wedding.