(Closed) How/When Did Your SO tell you that he/she loved you for the first time?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1941 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

One of my favorite moments….

Though early for some; Darling Husband and I knew right away this was it. We had been dating just a little over 2 weeks and he suprised me one night at my condo. He was working late and I fell asleep on my couch when he came over and said he had a suprise for me but I needed to put something warmer on. He wouldn’t tell me where we were going and I was a little unsure bc it was about 11:30 pm. So off we went. About 40 minutes later we ended up in a corn field on land his parents owned where he put out a blanket and snacks. It’s a very open farm field and the night sky was perfectly clear and there were a ton of stars out. We started talking about us and where we were heading and what we wanted out of this and life when he said it. It was one of the best nights I’ve ever had and probably the most romantic thing he has done. What’s even better; we built our home on that same land 3 years later. πŸ™‚

Post # 4
14492 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

On our first date.  He was best friends with a highschool friend and I had known him for years.  At the end of our date he grabbed my face and told me that he had loved me since the day we met.  And I was done, hook, line, and sinker.

Post # 7
114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

We were in the least romantic spot ever (Chicago’s El) on the way to a holiday party for the store I worked for. He had gone all out, bought a new outfit, was nervous – it was the first time he had ever really gotten dressed up around me. We were at the Grand Red Line stop – we were just joking around with each other up until this point – and said, “Oh, you love me” or something like that. He got all quiet and embarrased. I was really confused. So we sat in silence for awhile… then he finally turned to me and said, “I love you, Summerteeth (well, he used my actual name)”


His wedding band has the latitude & longitude coordinates for the Grand Red Line stop engraved in them πŸ™‚

Post # 8
269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

My Fiance went off for the weekend to his brother’s graduation and I made him three envelopes for each morning that he would be gone. They each had a note about how much I missed him and hoped he would have a great day. They also included two secrets from Postsecret. The site that has people send in their secrets on a post card. I have always saved my favorites.


He loved it! He said he had been trying to find a way to say it to me but was too nervous. That Sunday he came back home. We said it over and over and I remember how great but foreign it felt to say those three words to him.

Post # 9
2950 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Thanksgiving Day 2004… we had been dating a month (but were besties in HS) and we were just talking and he mumbled I love you. and I stopped talking and said “What?!” and he wouldnt say it again lol I told him that he must not of meant it if he couldnt repeat it and he said I do mean it! I LOVE YOU! and I just said “Good! cause I love you too!!! Im so glad you finally said it cause ive been wanting to tell you for a month!”  haha πŸ˜€


Post # 10
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh my gosh, it was amazing. One of the best memories.  This was his first “real” relationship so it made everything somehow so special.  I think he knew I was so ready to tell him that I loved him, but I waited because I was scared!!!  One morning, unexpectantly, while he was saying good-bye to me in my driveway (I was headed to work!), on our 3 month anniversary he stood outside my car and peaked his head in my side…and slowly pushed my sunglasses up on top of my head and then he said “Happy 3 month anniversary, I love you RR”.  And then he kissed me.  Let me tell you.  It goes down in history as one of the most magical kisses.  I felt it in my knees!!! I’ve heard people talk about that, but I’ve never experience it!  It radiated through my body, it was freakin’ awesome!!!! It was all in a slow motion, I can remember it so clearly!

@MissGreen: What’s even better; we built our home on that same land 3 years later. πŸ™‚

I love that!!!

Post # 13
7586 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Mine is not romantic. It was actually the most embarassing moment of my life.

We were laying in his bed. We were up talking all night and both fell asleep. (We hadn’t had sex) We woke up in the morning and he had me in his arms. It just slipped right out of my mouth. “I love you” He replied “Thank you”

I wanted to die.  I didn’t say it again or acknowledge what he had said. I wanted to die. 2 weeks later he confessed his love in a much better way, but that situation was so awful. 

Post # 15
14492 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Kind of unrelated but super funny (at least to me)

I had a SO once that tried so hard that it was almost sad, he tried to recite one of the speeches that Darcy told Elizabeth in Pride and Prejudice, you know the one if you have read the book.  This was not a book guy at all, just a complete cowboy, and I know that he tried to look something romantic up online. (and he tried to pass it off like it was an original thought of his)

I was totally shocked and just looked at him and said “Are you kidding?  My living room is a library and you used a line from the most populare chick book ever!?  You might want to rethink that….”

I know it was kind of mean of me, but I was alot harder of a personality back then.

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