(Closed) How/when was your “first” time?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I was just about 19 with my high school sweetheart. It lasted about 2 minutes and was awful. LOL.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

About 4 years ago… I was almost 19 and it was with my (now) fiance.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I was 16 and I do regret it for many reasons

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

I was 17 and with my now Darling Husband. It was the night BEFORE prom (as opposed to the cliched prom night). It was pretty bad lol. Very painful, and I’m not entirely sure if I was quite ready, but I don’t regret it. I just wish we didn’t have to be sneaky about it and could have had some time to go slow and maybe not have been on a couch… Darling Husband was very good about it though. He was gentle.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

It was with my college boyfriend and I was 19. It happened on an air bed, was short, not great and he mentioned a few times what his mother would think. Yikes! Despite all of this I do not regret it. I know that we both cared about each other and it was one of those crazy life experiences.

Bet it doesn’t surprise any of you that we broke up a year later and issues with his mother were a portion of the problems with our relationship!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

I was 18 and about a month away from leaving for college for the first, had been dating my high school sweetheart for 2 years. It happened in his bed when everyone was away for the week. We actually planned to lose it to eachother like a week before and picked that day because no one would be home :p

I don’t regret it, although we broke up 2 years later. It hurt and was awkward but not terrible because we had been dating so long so and I trusted him completely.

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Ours was during our senior year in college in his bedroom.  Aww.

Post # 10
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Helper bee

i was 16, we had been together 6 months and are still together now

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Mine was when i was 16..with my now husband..it was BEAUTIFUL and not painful at all the only issue was he did not have any protection so we did not do it all the way…2nd time and from then on always using protection and it has only gotten better and better 🙂 I have had boyfriends (with two of them lasting over year and half) but none i could trust enough..so i have only been with my now husband…and i would not have it any other way 🙂

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

It was when I was 16 with my then bf. It was pretty uncomfortable. It only hurt for a seond or 2, but I didn’t start to like it until  about the the 7th or 8th time. lol.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper

I was 16, he was 18.  It felt GREAT.  Maybe if it hadn’t felt good I wouldn’t have done it again, but when it felt so good, well…  (You know what I’m talking about!)

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I was 16, he was 15 and cheating on his Girlfriend.  TERRIBLE!!!

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I was sooo tired of being the only virgin out of my group of friends so I just wanted to lose it. I had just turned 18 and was a freshman at college. Not that I wasn’t picky, but well the guy was definately a regrettable choice. The sad thing is that my now-fiance and I were talking at that point but just not dating. If only I had waited for him to finally ask me out!

 

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I was 18, with an ex (boyfriend at the time) that I completely regret doing it with. Oh well.

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