(Closed) Hubby/Wife Matching Bands?

posted 10 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
619 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Nay for me. I don’t dress like my Fiance, so why would I wear the same jewelry?

Post # 4
157 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 1997

Yay. My DH and I have matching bands.

Post # 5
200 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

We ordered matching bands. They should be in tomorrow! The band is fairly think on my e-ring, 3mm with 3 emerald cut diamonds, so getting a plain matching white gold band was a no brainer for me. Fiance tried a few things and happened to like the white gold as well so it just worked out that way.



Post # 6
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I was kinda “meh” on the whole thing and figured we’d see what happened when we looked. Fiance found a ring he LOVED that is a brushed gun metal colour and I chose a semi-eternity band to match my e-ring in white gold. I think Yay to matching bands, but only if it doesn’t look silly with your e-ring and your Fiance is okay with the matching band.

Post # 7
2515 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

We don’t have matching bands. Didn’t even consider it. I wanted an eternity band and do they even make eternity bands for men? lol. I did almost get a 2nd band to match his because the store that had the ring he wanted only sold it in his and her sets. I would’ve used that as a travel ring since it was plain. We ended up getting his ring elsewhere though.

Post # 8
1026 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ours match but only because of the coincidence we both wanted palin bands. I say matching bands yay if you have the same taste, nay if you don’t!

Post # 9
1113 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

His is a comfort fit band the same width and metal as my half eternity band. Matchy enough for me! But not the same ones, no.

Post # 10
376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - St. Philip Catholic Church/Arcadia Brewing Co.

Mine is 4mm his is 7mm but other than that, They are the same.

Post # 11
4812 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Well, originally our bands matched. Not really planned that way, but both were sapphires and white diamonds in white gold (my band had a small pear sapphire with pave, his all pave). The wedding set I got after we were married (I did not originally have an ering) also matched with a sapphire centrestone and scattered diamonds.

I am getting a new set due to allergies and going to yellow gold with moissanite and champagne/cognac melee. My husband still has, and absolutely loves, his original band. So no matching here! We are both okay with it. Yellow gold is far more flattering on me than white, and the reverse for him, plus he just loves the design of his ring.

So…I am neither yay or nay. I am “whatever works for you”!

Post # 12
3345 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Ours aren’t even close! He wanted a black titanuim ring.  I went with something that matched my ring, white gold with a little bling.  

Post # 13
6533 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

My fiancé wants a stainless steel band… So no!

Post # 14
622 posts
Busy bee

Fiance and I very seriously considered it, but we can’t agree on a style we both like 🙁

Post # 15
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Ours will match other than the fact that mine is 4mm and his is 7mm–both yellow gold.  I was originally going to get rose gold–so it would match my e-ring, but I’m not going to wear that anyways after the wedding unless it’s a fancy occasion, so eh.  He wanted matching bands, so I went along with it.  If I really want a matching ring to go with my e-ring at like a cocktail party, I can get a little rose gold ring for cheap for a temp thing. 

Post # 16
731 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

We’re not matching.  My grandmother gave me diamonds to use in my band, and Fiance didn’t want anything fussy in his, so mine is a 5-stone diamond band in platinum and his is Tungsten (good thing he didn’t want platinum, a ring in his size would’ve cost a small fortune!). 

Funny story- I had a friend in law school who was Peruvian, and in her family the wedding bands always matched. She wanted a diamond and sapphire band, and her father caught wind of it and bought their wedding bands- matching diamond and sapphire channel set wedding bands.  Her husband thought it was so sweet he couldn’t say no, so even almost ten years later he still wears his diamond and sapphire channel set wedding band.

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