(Closed) Huge honeymoon problem! So mad!

posted 10 years ago in Honeymoons
  • poll: What should we do?

    Skip wedding, try to enjoy honeymoon

    Go to wedding, even if you'll be broke and have no money for fun activities

    Compromise, go to wedding, cancel nice resort and stay at budget condo instead to help with $

  • Post # 17
    Member
    3871 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I would be so pissed if I were you. You asked and confirmed a bunch of times to make sure you were picking the right dates.  I would have done the same thing.

    If I had the money, I would suck it up and pay for it and pretty pissed about it still.  If I didn’t have the money, I would have to decline the wedding.  You tried your hardest to make things work.

    Oh, if I was going to a destination wedding and it was around my wedding, I would definitely extend the trip to make it my honeymoon. 

    Post # 18
    Member
    1941 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

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    @7-9-11bride: it seems like you have gone above and beyond to accommodate fitting THEIR wedding into YOUR honeymoon. If you had the money, I say make the changes, but forgo ***any*** sort of wedding/shower gift, etc. But if you can’t make it happen, then it is what it is. Let them know, “Sorry, I’ve confirmed dates with you on more than one occassion. I would have appreciated advance notice on the date change, say before you sent the invites off for proof, etc, but now it is simply too late for us to afford to make changes. We wish you a wonderful wedding, and can’t wait to see pictures”

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    @heather25: nooo! I missed a flight once by ten minutes and had to buy another ticket. Had to wait at the airport for NINE HOURS and pay $500 bucks. Hands down one of the worst days of my life.

    Post # 20
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    746 posts
    Busy bee

    Do you have travel insurance? Dependent upon the terms you may be able to change the dates and file a claim for the change fees.

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