(Closed) Hurry up already… what are you waiting for? Men suck.

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I never understood that when I was “waiting” either. I found out Fiance had the ring after he’d already had it for two months…and he waited LONGER. I was like, what a waste of money. Why buy it and keep it hidden in a drawer knowing very well how much I would like it. :/

Good luck to you! Maybe he’ll see the light. But, men can be dense. And “perfect” moments do not actually exist, it’s what you make them. Maybe point that out to him. πŸ˜‰

Post # 4
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i take my hat off to anyone that knows he has the ring and is still waiting.. im not a patient woman at all!

hopefully he has a plan and your turn will be soon – with christmas and new years coming up hopefully its sooner than later

 

Post # 5
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810 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Think positive, at least he has a ring!! I’m pretty sure mine doesn’t, but if he has presents for me he usually hides them at his work cause he knows I’ll tear the house apart looking for goodies.

My bf has really good reasons for waiting (wants to finish school, straighten out his financial stuff, etc.) but When Harry Met Sally has been playing on tv for the past three days, and watching it every time I remember what Harry says at the end, “I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”

Jeez, why can’t my bf be channeling Harry Burns?!

Post # 6
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Newbee

@AmyDee: wow I read that quote last night somewhere on the boards and was trying to recall it last night while on the phone with my man and couldn’t for the life of me. Even after googling everything possible. What are the odds I’d log in again and see it?!

I texted it to him just now to explain my impatience with the present and my excitement for our future…let’s see if he gets the hint! πŸ˜‰

Post # 7
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810 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

@greekbrunettebride: It’s a great quote, isn’t it?  And it makes me cry every time, love that movie!

Post # 8
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7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@dreamingofbling: I am sending proposal vibes!!!  I am hoping he surprises you for the holidays!!! Don’t go crazy on him though! Any moment is going to be perfect. I told Fiance he could have proposed at a red light and I would have been happy!

Post # 9
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47 posts
Newbee

@dreamingofbling:

Oh lordy, girl, I understand where you are!  I was EXACTLY where you are about a month ago…wondering why wait since he has the ring!  JUST DO IT ALREADY!!!  Hee hee!

If he has the ring, that is a very good sign.  As my then bf, now fiance, said “why would I buy the ring if I am not going to use it?!?!?”  Good point.

Try your darnedest to NOT talk about it and know that he will do it.  My bf revealed that he spent a lot of time thinking of when and how to do it.  He is very proud of his proposal and it really is the guy’s time to make an incredible memory.

 

Post # 10
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Worker bee

@AmyDee: Wow, I wish had never read that quote.  Its so cute but at the same time makes me feel so depressed that my boyfriend apparently doesn’t feel that way… sigh

Post # 11
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667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It sucks waiting but I’m sure he has an amazing proposal planned and I bet it’s probably going to happen during the holidays. At least you know he has the ring, I’m pretty sure mine doesn’t even have the ring yet πŸ™ Hang in there and I hope it happens soon πŸ™‚

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